Wow… On the “Worlds marriage day”
that is 9th Feb, we have completed 7 total years of our happy
married life and I am so proud to be called your wifey darling husband.
These years have taught me many
things and yet to give me some more with each passing day. All I learnt is A
perfect marriage is not when “Perfect couple” comes together but its then when
an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.
When we start this marriage journey,
initially we need to adjust with the new home, new people, and new relations.
At times we have to struggle to prove our abilities. Sometime we get overburden
with the responsibilities yet we need to manage things in all possible ways. We
walk some miles happily together but the moment we see things going wrong, we
bewildered and rather than solving it we keep pointing out each other’s
mistakes and fights on silly reasons. But this love-hate relationship has a
long way to go. We gradually learn to understand each other. We earn the
technique to analyze and resolve the issues rather than stretching them up. At times we face a lot of difficulties,
tensions, sometimes misunderstandings, and have to balance career with
household duties too but when you have a supportive and loving husband (just
like me), things really look easy to handle. B’coz end of the day he is there
to offer his shoulder for you to lean on and share your all problems.
I know I am not old and
experienced enough to give you the keys to the successful married life but this
is what I feel about it. Go on try this and see how things run smooth in your
life.
1. Never
get angry at the same time.
2. Never
yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3. If
one of you has to win the argument, let it be your mate.
4. If
you have to criticize, do it lovingly.
5. Never
bring up mistakes of the past.
6. Neglect
the whole world rather than each other.
7. Never
go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8. At
least once every day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life’s
partner.
9. When
you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
10. It
absolutely okay to say “sorry” sometimes even though you are not at fault.
Sometime it’s necessary to avoid big crisis.
On my marriage journey, Sometimes I
got stuck, sometimes I failed, sometimes I stack, sometimes I made mistakes but
you have supported me endlessly. You have handled my immaturity, my tantrums
and have handled the small girl inside me very well. Even though we don’t
always agree on almost everything and we always fight on small and silly
issues, we still know in the back of our mind that we are lucky to have each
other.
Today, I want to thank you for your
unconditional love and care, for encouraging me and motivating me. Thank you
for allowing me to do everything that I wished to. It’s because of you I could rejoin
the classical music and pursue my ultimate passion. Thanks for holding me, standing
next to me when I was all lost. I know and so sure you will always be.
I know you are not good in expressing your love like others
who use filmy fundas but you are far better than them because you owe a golden
and purest heart. I know we still love each other as deeply and entirely as
ocean.
I pray to God to shower His causeless mercy upon us and our
family. May he protect you and offer you a healthy life. May you achieve your goals
and get success in everything you do. Last but not least thanks for being such
a wonderful husband and ultimate best father to our Son.
Stay Happy, Stay Bless !
Keep smiling, Keep loving!
Keep smiling, Keep loving!
With lots of love,
Sneh
(PS: I know I am late to publish this article although I wrote this on Feb 8th)
