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I am kinda dreamy and this is one of the reason I can write stories. I strongly believe that life has many amazing things to give you and it depends on the perspective of an individual. I have a positive approach towards life and feels very fortunate to be a women, a daughter, a wife and a mother. I love writing though not regular. This is my own world and I enjoy this space where I can share and express my feelings ..my thoughts. Hope u enjoy reading..Dont forget to comment if you like any article or poem :)

Thursday, May 16, 2013

“How you start your day is how you live your life”



The first hour of the morning is crucial. You may be really tired last night and feel to sleep for some more time. You feel lethargic but you need to follow your schedule. How you spend it will determine your experience for the rest of the day. Too many people start their day with “oh, shit! It’s another day and I’ve got to get up, damn it!" If you have got lousy way of starting your day, you are not going to have a good start ever. 

Never get up from bed carrying the old bad memories of last night. Get up with the full energy and positive vibrations inside you to brush away the impair thoughts. Be confident with yourself, it’s about proving yourself that nothing can agitate you from being successful. If you feel regret for your past mistakes, keep calm before jumping on the conclusion.  Analyze it and find out the solution in order to wind up the issue to make things on track again. This way you come out of it or else it will keep on torturing you. 

Try this out, the moment you are up, snuggle your body a little more into bed and thank the bed for a good night’s sleep. Tell yourself this is going to be a really good day. Take little more time stretching your body. Make a cuppa of Tea/coffee and enjoy it sitting at your favorite place be it on your bed or any corner or window of your house. Like I love sitting in the balcony chair. Spend some good time breathing the fresh air’s aroma. See how the sun is shining and spreading light everywhere. It smiles at me saying this is your day as brighten as my rays. One more wonderful day to live…one more day to fulfill my wishes…one more day to achieve my goals…one more day with a chance to prove myself that I can make anything possible.

Give yourself at least 2 hours of each morning before you face the people. This will help you deal in much better way. In the mean time do something good which makes you feel cheerful. Do some good yoga it makes your feel fresh. Do reading or glancing through the newspaper or try your hands on puzzles to stretch your mind or just talk to your partner/friend. As you starts the communication (with or without topic) it makes one feel good. Really good…After this go make a delicious break-fast, make sure to make it healthy coz it will boost your energetic day and then go get ready. 

While even getting ready keep giving yourself the positive affirmations that whatever you would do today will surely turn out to be good. Be positive and be focused. This way you will learn the art to never have a BAD day. It’s all about developing good habits and practices. Think of good things to say to yourself, the first thing in the morning.

As you are all set for moving out for your office, make sure you greet and say bye to your loved ones back at home. Hug them…you can feel the warmness of their love and care throughout the day. 

Believe me each passing day is an opportunity for you. Never miss to bring out the best out of it so one fine day you won’t regret coz these days will NEVER return back to you. It’s in your hand whether to see the positive side or the negative one. 

Remember, The best helping hands are at the end of your own arms. Don't be dependent on anybody to make you feel happy, help yourself. Be cheerful, bring smile on other faces, make yourself feel good and believe….believe in yourself. 

All the very best folks. Lets be more positive and find happiness :)

One last call...


One last call
& words fall speechless
One last call
& life remains flawless

One last call
& I couldn’t sum up my life with
One last call
& I couldn’t see my world beneath

One last call
& I forget to live anymore
One last call
& I am left in heart sore

One last call
& I could not say I will miss you
One last call
& I could not express my love to you

One last call
& you have played your part
One last call
& our ways are far apart!!!

Wednesday, May 15, 2013

A Sincere thanks to Mother!!




I poured a glass of cold Juice and offered it to my Son. His immediate reaction was “Oh Maa, I am about to ask you for this but how did u know that I wanted this?” I smiled with the pride on my face and replied that’s because “Maa can even hear you thinking” He was surprised that how  I can read his mind but next moment he hugs me saying “I love you Maa” and emptied the glass of juice.

A Mother who spends a lot of time with her kids handling their tantrums with patience, helping them to understand things in a proper way, teaching them good habits, playing with them, watching movie together, getting the home work done, taking them to the garden, resolving their BIG problems. It may look small for us but for them its a big thing when the remote control car does not work, sharpening the pencil ten times or to locate their belongings…so on and so forth. But at time Mommy gets tired, she gets angry, she loses the patience level, she becomes strict and stubborn at times, she becomes a little stubborn, she forcefully makes him follow her order. Off course no kids will like their sweet soft mommy becoming Hitler all of a sudden. My 5 year old comes to me in such situations and confirms if my mood is good or bad and he would also quote that “Aap aise acche nahi lagate ho mujhe”. This brings a quick smile on my face because he posses the power to change my mood. But I also understand the need to become strict and stubborn when it’s needed. Every time the situation can’t be controlled with sweet talks, you have to act like that. I now understood it’s not an easy task to raise your kids. They are so delicate to handle and we need to handle them with tender. They are flexible to mold and it depends how we shape them.

Later that afternoon, I kept on thinking how truly a mother can read your mind. She exactly understands you more than yourself. I recall my mother, my Aai, my ultimate best friend since childhood. A lady having great patience, very down to earth and she takes the responsibility of the family so well that sometimes I feel that she is born to understand each one of us yet she never complaints. I recall how she used to teach us those small things which now become my assets, those valuable lessons which help me to lead a successful life, those ethics which helps me to play my role well as a Wife, as a Mother, as a daughter in law.

Today I thank her from bottom of my heart for “Everything”. To make me what I am today, to motivate me that I can do anything, to call me her supporting pillar in her low times, to share her experience of life with me. For those dreams I share with her and she had always boost me with positive approach to work hard to achieve them.

I don’t know if I would ever become as Awesome Mother as she is but I am so proud that I am her daughter. So I would keep trying…keep teaching my Son what I have learn from her and I am also open to learn from my 5 year old. At times those innocent eyes really show you the other side of coin which your matured eyes could not see.

So to conclude respect your mother’s feelings because you owe her a lot, owe her for those 9 moths she carried your weight, owe her for her sleepless nights, owe her for nursing you when u fell sick, owe her for the tears she sheds for you, owe her for making you what you are today, owe her for her efforts to raise you and made you a successful person, owe her for unending supply of love and care, owe her because she doesn’t ask anything in returns but she only believes in giving. Owe her because she is an Angle of your life.

I thank God for making me a Mother to fill my Son’s life with love, adoration and care and enjoy the motherhood. I am trying to be his Angle to grants his wishes now and forever.


 “LIFE DOESN’T COME WITH A MANUAL, IT COMES WITH A MOTHER”