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I am kinda dreamy and this is one of the reason I can write stories. I strongly believe that life has many amazing things to give you and it depends on the perspective of an individual. I have a positive approach towards life and feels very fortunate to be a women, a daughter, a wife and a mother. I love writing though not regular. This is my own world and I enjoy this space where I can share and express my feelings ..my thoughts. Hope u enjoy reading..Dont forget to comment if you like any article or poem :)

Thursday, January 16, 2014

Parenting alone – Day 3…and last day



Date : 15th Jan 2014

The countdown ends today since Vishal will be home tomorrow morning and we are more than happy for that.

We attend ladies club every Wednesday, kinda small get together where we play games, cards and enjoy snacks. Aaru enjoyed playing with his friends in the club garden and had good time too. He is also happy and proud for me winning the 2nd prize in "one minute game".

One remarkable question he asks me while he is doing home work this late evening. Here how it goes:

Maa : Aaru, please finish Home work quickly so can go to bed little early as Maa feeling tired and sleepy.


Aaru : Maa, you can sleep. I will finish my work and switch off all lights before I sleep.


Maa : No problem dear, I shall read and wait until you finish.


Aaru take a pause and says : Maa, why is that, that the mother cares for her child sooooo much?

Oohh, I cuddled him up and kissed on his cheeks. I hold him to close his eyes and then tells him a story I once read.....(a sweet answer to his sweet question.)

You know Aaru, There was a smallest baby who was living with God up there in heaven. One day God says that it’s the time to send the baby in the world, where he will learn and grow big. The baby gets scared and gloomy with this news. He never wants to leave God and his home. He says, God I do not know anyone there and how will I live there without God. 


God smiles at his innocence and tells him that there is nothing to be scared about. God has assigned one angle who shall take care of him throughout his life. Who will always understand him and give him endless love and affection. Baby gets happy and gets agree to take birth in this world. 


When the baby was lying in his mother’s lap for the first time, God appears and tells him that "My boy you are in safe hands now and the lady holding you is none other than the angle I have sent. She knows all exactly how to take care of you." And God leaves the baby with the mother. 


The story ended but Aaru kept on smiling for long time. I guess he was imagining himself as the baby and me as his angle. And the question series starts here. Maa that means you are my angle? and that you have promised God to take care of me always?. He says now he knows the fact of his arrival in our family and he was happy that God gave him the best angle. I am glad and proud to hear this. I said Yes, I am your angle my little prince and I winked at him.

Really, Mothers are the angles sent by God. She has the softest of the heart. She happily sacrifices or at times give up her career to be a full time mother. Her world revolves in her children and family. She fulfills her duties and responsibilities without any complaints. All she needs is some love, some attention and some appreciation.

I am so proud to be your mother Aaru. Maa loves you so much!!!

I miss 'you' my Angle. My mother. I would try to be as sweet angle as you are. And I pray you live a long life b'coz I still need you and I always will.

Stay Happy, Stay Bless !
Keep smiling, Keep loving! 

Snehal :) 
 


Wednesday, January 15, 2014

There are things



There are things
That we don’t want to happen
But we have to accept

There are things
That we don’t want to know
But we have to learn

There are people
We can’t live without
But we have to let go….


Tuesday, January 14, 2014

Parenting alone - Day 2

Date : 14th Jan 2014 



Yippy it’s a holiday today. I am very happy to shut the alarm’s mouth. Today is our day, just the way we want as there is no rush to follow the “in time” strategy. So we enjoy sleeping till late and could get up from bed only by 8.30 am after some pillow throwing fun and laughter in bed. 


We decided to make a quick, hot and delicious Maggie for the breakfast. Aaru already offered his help and gladly agreed upon. He pulled the chair and adjusted near the induction so as to instruct me how to make Maggie. He tells me how much water the pot needed, when to add Maggie and the taste maker. He further guides me to stir carefully so that Maggie should not break into small pieces and he can be able to roll the long noodles into his fork. I wonder how much carefully kids notice our work that one day they surprise us copying the same act in accurate way we do it. I loved pretending to be unaware to the whole act and I found my Master chef smiling being smart. Finally I learn making it and later we enjoyed Maggie together.


As it’s “Makar Sankranti” the festival we celebrate in Maharastra by exchanging Til Gul and say “Til Gul ghya god god bola”. I get today’s pooja done by Aaru. I explain him about this festival and tell him some of my childhood stories. The fun and enjoyment we used to have on this day. He listens it all with great interest and then asks many questions..Uff I am tired answering him at last. This afternoon as he finishes his home work I fulfilled my promise watching “Stuart little” movie together and he simply loved it. :)

In evening he play with his friends in the nearest park and I get my time scribbling some poems on paper and post them across on my blog. In the mean time I also chat with hubby and get his updates.

2nd day ends with no troubles at all. It’s kinda benefit of having a sweet son like Aaru but I really wish he should do lot more masti and enjoy his childhood at the fullest. But his small funny things force me to smile and I forget all my worries. 

Thanks for being with me my little man!!! I so love you…

With a sweet note we get back to bed. Time for some bed time tales…

Stay Happy, Stay Bless !
Keep smiling, Keep loving!

Snehal :) 
 

Let go…



You feel divest
You feel lonesome
You feel shattered
For the one who cannot be yours…

She broke…
Your dreams
Your heart
Promises made
She left never to come back…
Still you keep waiting for her return

Dear why dont you just
Forgive
Forget
And let go
The burden of memories

Get up,
Clear your sky from from the teary clouds
Let the sunshine light up your way 

Fill the pages of life
With some positive goals
Fill the glass of life
With full of energy
Fill up the gap of the broken heart
With the much awaited love

Win over the closed chapter,
Take another chance and start anew

Yet again,
Learn to live
Learn to love
Learn to let go......